{"id":751,"date":"2024-09-30T17:37:33","date_gmt":"2024-09-30T10:37:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/doannguyenhiep.com\/blog\/khao-khat-dong-luc\/"},"modified":"2024-10-27T10:42:08","modified_gmt":"2024-10-27T03:42:08","slug":"khao-khat-dong-luc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/doannguyenhiep.com\/vi\/phat-trien-ca-nhan\/khao-khat-dong-luc\/","title":{"rendered":"Khao kh\u00e1t & \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c!"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 h\u1ecd mong mu\u1ed1n, trong khi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u1ea1i v\u1eadt l\u1ed9n m\u00e3i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfn xa h\u01a1n.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi t\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng?\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

B\u00ed m\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng n\u1eb1m \u1edf ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh, kh\u00f4ng n\u1eb1m \u1edf \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i c\u1ea3nh hay s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi n\u1eb1m \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 khao kh\u00e1t t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng phi th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd “ph\u1ea3i” c\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t r\u00f5 l\u00e0: th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 th\u1ee9 t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n “mu\u1ed1n” c\u00f3 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 hai th\u1ee9 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c nhau.<\/p>\n

Khi \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf qua, khi khao kh\u00e1t c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ea1nh, ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng sinh t\u1ed3n s\u1ebd th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y t\u00f4i t\u00ecm m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, nh\u1eefng mong mu\u1ed1n tho\u00e1ng qua kh\u00f4ng \u0111i k\u00e8m v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t khao kh\u00e1t \u0111\u1ee7 l\u1edbn s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng b\u1ecb qu\u00ean l\u00e3ng, b\u1ecb l\u1ea5n \u00e1t b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

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\u0110\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang ta ng\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n, h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 ta thay \u0111\u1ed5i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. Nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi: n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 b\u1ea1n th\u00ec sao? T\u00f4i s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec? Ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i hay h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng?<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, m\u1edbi gi\u00fap t\u00f4i ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc. <\/span><\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i c\u1ea7n b\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i. V\u00e0 khi t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ee7 l\u1edbn, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u1eady l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 k\u00edch ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i v\u00e0 gi\u1eef cho khao kh\u00e1t lu\u00f4n ch\u00e1y b\u1ecfng?<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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  1. X\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u00f5 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau: T\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n g\u00ec? T\u00f4i s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3?<\/li>\n
  2. L\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, chia nh\u1ecf m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf.<\/span><\/li>\n
  3. Ki\u00ean tr\u00ec theo \u0111u\u1ed5i, ngay c\u1ea3 khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 t\u00f4i. Khi khao kh\u00e1t c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ee7 l\u1edbn v\u00e0 t\u00f4i ki\u00ean quy\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng t\u1eeb b\u1ecf, m\u1ecdi tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec7m tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1eabn t\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u00f4i ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i. Khao kh\u00e1t m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1edf c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

    N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng t\u00ecm m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n t\u00f4i.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 h\u1ecd mong mu\u1ed1n, trong khi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u1ea1i v\u1eadt l\u1ed9n m\u00e3i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfn xa h\u01a1n.\u00a0 B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bao … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[57],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-751","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-phat-trien-ca-nhan"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/doannguyenhiep.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/751"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/doannguyenhiep.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/doannguyenhiep.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/doannguyenhiep.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/doannguyenhiep.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=751"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/doannguyenhiep.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/751\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":807,"href":"https:\/\/doannguyenhiep.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/751\/revisions\/807"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/doannguyenhiep.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=751"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/doannguyenhiep.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=751"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/doannguyenhiep.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=751"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}